Sometimes My Heart Could Just Explode With Love & Pride

We had our first parent/teachers meeting at Ava’s new school yesterday and to say I left there feeling beyond proud would be a complete and utter understatement! Ava is thriving. We have been astounded by her development over the past couple of months. She’s become like a sponge and the things she is learning is just totally blowing me away. Her language development has been incredible and now not only is she speaking in English, but she can also speak some Afrikaans and a little bit of Zulu!

She has an amazing teacher and I am really happy about this, from my own school experience, I know how having the “right” teacher can have a huge impact on learning and development. Her teacher has informed us that she is astounded that Ava is a December baby and almost a year younger than half of her class as she is already showing school readiness for Grade R. She’s also the only child in her class who can skip and hop on one leg and alternate from one leg to the other, she also cuts beautifully and accurately and can cut out even and uneven shapes, even cutting out a circle perfectly. Her self awareness is also very good and in self portraits, she’s gone from drawing a stick man two months ago, to drawing a girl, in a dress, with hair, fingers, eyes, ears, nose, mouth and even a neck. She has apparently also shown an aptitude for maths and is also leading her class in problem solving, most noticeably with puzzles, she can do a 40 odd piece puzzle, with the picture for guidance, without a picture, so just using a problem solving to fit the pieces together and even with the puzzle turned over so she can’t see the images on the puzzle pieces either.

Her teacher also told us she has an excellent attention span for her age and is very determined when it comes to finishing a task, she doesn’t give up and is very determined.

So far she appears to be sailing through and the only area of focus we have is with her conflict management. Apparently she is still quite soft where that is involved and if someone in the class hurts her to takes something from her, she will sit quietly and cry without alerting a teacher and approaching the child involved.

I am so incredibly proud of her. For such a little thing, she really is doing very well.

We also had her first sports day today and once again the surrealness of my situation was highlighted. There are still moments, more than 4 years on, where I cannot believe that the hell of our years of infertility are actually over. That I am free of that pain and have moved on, that I have children and what came before has long been forgotten. When I arrived and saw this, I couldn’t help myself, I was chocked with emotion and actually cried!

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I never expected that it would be such a big deal, but I see the teachers and kids went all out, each class made their own banners and decorated their own t-shirts and they even had their own cheer songs! It was totally adorable!

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2014-03-28 08.41.55Even Dad got involved and ran in the teacher/parents race! Go dad go!

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  • Reply Sian

    I’m glad that she is doing well. The pics are so cute.

    March 28, 2014 at 1:29 pm
  • Reply Elize

    I’m so glad she’s doing so amazingly well at school! The sports day looked like awesome fun!! Well done Ava! Uncle Leez loves you soooo much!!

    March 28, 2014 at 1:31 pm
    • Reply Sharon

      Uncle Leez, you’ll have to come with to the next sports day… maybe you could run in the Aunties race or something? 🙂

      March 28, 2014 at 1:32 pm
      • Reply Elize

        Lol! Would love to come!

        March 28, 2014 at 5:44 pm
  • Reply paddatjiesema

    I’m in tears every sports day and school concert and demonstration they have, with both kids. And last year I ran in the parents race, and came second. All through my school years I’ve never managed anything better than second last, and here I was the oldest Mom, and still managed a second place. And the person that beat me is a fitness instructor

    March 28, 2014 at 1:31 pm
  • Reply paddatjiesema

    Oh, and I’m glad to see she still managed to run with her sore toe 🙂

    March 28, 2014 at 1:34 pm
  • Reply cat@jugglingact

    Honestly days and moments like these jerk my tears, even though we did not have your struggles. It’s truly what life is all about. And how stunning is she doing!

    March 28, 2014 at 2:53 pm
  • Reply Ramona

    Wow. It good to hear how well she is doing especially since she has changed schools. I really think we get learn so much from 4 year olds. Even change doesn’t scare them. She is reaching her full potential.
    It’s amazing that they had a sports day as well.

    March 28, 2014 at 4:22 pm
  • Reply darylfaure

    Awesome child! Walter is looking fantastic. Well done to you both.

    March 28, 2014 at 4:24 pm
  • Reply Heather

    I also have moments like this, when I hardly believe my child is here.
    Hey which school is this? I have to start doing some research…

    March 28, 2014 at 8:27 pm
  • Reply ailsaloudon

    Ava is doing so well proud Mum, and Dad really flew past! Lovely pics! 🙂

    March 28, 2014 at 11:15 pm
  • Reply Melanie

    Such proud mommy moments.
    This year Jenna started at a new school as well(Curro century city). I beamed with joy and pride after our end of term mtg last month as the teacher told us how well she’s adapted at her new school, how she’s grown in confidence and in general what a pleasure it is to have her in the class

    April 16, 2014 at 5:48 am
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