Dreaming Of What Could Have Been

My nephew started school this week. He was conceived 2 months after my first miscarriage. It was painful listening to how excited he was to start school and not think about what should have been. My first should have started school this week too.

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  • Reply Lea White


    January 16, 2009 at 6:56 am
  • Reply MePregnant

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  • Reply Elize

    (((HUGS))) hon, that’s the worst part of m/c when you were pregnant the same time as some one close to you. I have two 3 yo girls to remind me everytime I see them.

    January 16, 2009 at 9:05 am
  • Reply monica lemoine

    I totally get it. I’m sorry you have to go through it…. hugs, Shaz!

    January 16, 2009 at 9:36 am
  • Reply Amanda

    (((((lotsa hugs))))) So sad for you.

    January 16, 2009 at 10:47 am
  • Reply samcy

    So sorry my friend. I’m here if you need to talk.


    January 16, 2009 at 11:57 am
  • Reply WiseGuy

    I am so sorry.

    January 16, 2009 at 12:27 pm
  • Reply Adel

    Thinking of you!!!

    January 16, 2009 at 1:47 pm
  • Reply 'Murgdan'


    January 16, 2009 at 2:34 pm
  • Reply Stacey

    I’m sad for you and sad with you. So sorry.

    Love ya.

    January 16, 2009 at 9:07 pm
  • Reply Jaded

    ouch…i fear this too. I am already going through this with my bff and her shadow baby that just started talking and walking. ouch, indeed.
    i’m so sorry your babies are not with you.

    January 16, 2009 at 9:20 pm
  • Reply loribeth

    Oh, (((hugs))). I understand. There is a little girl next door — 6 months & one grade younger than my daughter would have been, but close enough. The very first day my daughter would have started grade 1 was rough, but I was doing OK, until I saw this little girl, all dressed up for her first day of kindergarten & skipping happily down her driveway. I absolutely crumpled.

    January 16, 2009 at 11:05 pm
  • Reply Coach Louise

    I hear you Sharon. Have compassion for yourself. And then if you can, share the joy of your nephew’s big day. Hugs and healing thoughts to you.

    January 17, 2009 at 5:54 am
  • Reply Maritza


    January 17, 2009 at 10:43 am
  • Reply Sari

    I thought I was alone. Thanks for your blog. Lost first baby 4 years ago and another in August. I’m struggling to get through all the pain and questions of what I could have done better… I pray that you will soon be blogging about little pink feet.

    September 29, 2009 at 1:05 pm
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